Showing posts with label being in love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label being in love. Show all posts

Sunday, 6 November 2011

The Confusion that is Life

Posted by Unknown at Sunday, November 06, 2011 0 comments

An innocent baby is born
With no knowledge of this cruel world
But she learns
She learns from a tender age
That, things do not come in easy packages
Food, education, clean water
Sleep

But….

She is strong
She learns to depend on herself
To take the heartache and forgive
That courage is not without fear
But fear conquered
That tears are not a weakness
But a cleansing of the soul
That success is not based on the salary you earn
But the appreciation that failure leads to knowledge
That strength is not sitting on the throne all alone
But knowing when to reach out a helping hand

This baby learns
She grows and matures
And realizes that in this chaos,
All that is left is choice,
The choice to live for material possession, fame, recognition and all the unimportant things we are now taught to crave

Or….

The choice to live for self-discovery and self-acceptance
To appreciate family, friends and even strangers
To bask in nature’s treasures
To realize in times of pain
That there is someone worse off

Who knows what she will choose
What anyone will choose
The one thing that is sure
Is that life is a journey of many roads
Some are smooth, others bumpy
Some carefree, others filled with worry
Some lead us to the things we want
Others lead us to the things we need
No matter where these roads take us
Know that life is never easy
However, the following tools are always a soothing balm

Strength of character
Sense of integrity and honor
Honesty
Compassion for your neighbor
And most importantly
Love for one another.



Saturday, 5 November 2011

Lost Love

Posted by Unknown at Saturday, November 05, 2011 1 comments


You say you love me
Do you really?
Actions speak louder than words
Yours say you don’t.

You claim to need me
If I were gone, would you miss me?
My company seems more of an annoyance
Is my character that much of a nuisance?

“I want you,” you say
Why do I not feel desire in your touch?
A lonely bed is my only companion,
Cold and unaffectionate.

Your eyes used to light up at the sight of me
Your body ready and responsive.
Now dead eyes greet me
As your body turns away.
Our conversations used to bring laughter to this cold apartment
Now there are only words left unsaid.

We used to love
We used to share.
Now passion is a distant memory
Will we ever again be as we were?
Only time will tell.

Tuesday, 27 September 2011

Happily Ever After?

Posted by Unknown at Tuesday, September 27, 2011 3 comments

“And they lived happily ever after.”

This is the common ending for most fairy tales. And quite frankly I’m quite sick of hearing it. What the bleep does it mean? The couple never has a fight? Never have hard times? No troubles?

 That sounds highly unlikely. But to be fair it is a fairy tale after all, where good always wins, the girl always gets the Prince Charming and has a great singing voice. Nothing like reality. And why are they all so damn beautiful, no flaws in sight. You know the stereotype. The princess has long flowing hair, perfect teeth aand a size zero waistline. The prince is…well, Prince Charming with his winning smile. Don’t not-so-beautiful people deserve a happy ending also. People with the chipped tooth, curvy waistline and close cropped hair.

Although I understand wanting to protect our children from the harsh relality of life, that is just it, reality. You can’t run from it. It’s always in you face like that damn pimple that always pops up at the most inopportune times. I think that having a child grow up unprepared for the real world irresponsible. While I want my son to enjoy everything life has to offer, I don’t want him to go into the world with rose-colored glasses and be unprepared for people who in no way see the world in the same light.

We are giving children the wrong idea about what love is. Does love mean you always like your other half, that you live in the biggest house on the block, that you are crowned royality? Of course not. As a matter of fact, I would more readily believe that a couple that fights daily, live in the tiniest house on the block and are deemed ‘peasants”  and are happy with each other, flaws and all, know far more about what love really is. And that’s a happy ending to me.

So while I like mostly everyone enjoy a good fairy tale, I think a more appropriate ending is in order.
 

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