Here are a few tips to make you a winner at the tongue Olympics.
- Proper hygiene. No one wants to have a dirty tongue thrust into their mouth.
- Hold your partner close. This allows greater intimacy with your bodies pressed close to each other. Touch the special person’s back, shoulders, neck, hair, etc.. Know the boundaries. You do not want to overstep and ruin the moment. Be gentle; at least until you get to know your partner better and know what he/she like.
- Tilt your head to the side to gain proper access and forgo any awkward positions.
- Close your eyes. With your eyes close, your other senses heighten and make the kiss more intense.
- Gently touch your lips to your partner’s. Savor the moment. Do not rush. Starting slow allows you to figure out what your partner likes.
- Lightly move your tongue against your partner’s lips, pressing softly.
- If and when their lips part, lightly touch your tongue to theirs in a soft sweeping or licking motion.
- When you are both comfortable with that, sucking and “wrestling” of the tongue is allowed.
- Spice it up. Explore your partner’s mouth. Don’t get too creepy. Slowly and gently.
- Biting. Some people like light biting of the lower lip. Very sexy and erotic.
- So not forget to breathe through your nose. Air will be in short supply in such moments!
- Swallow your spit. No need to slobber your partner.
- Vocalize your pleasure (moaning, heavy breathing, etc.). Let your partner know that you are enjoying the kiss. They will too if you are doing it right.
- Continue holding your partner close and listen to body language. There are many signs that your partner is enjoying your technique. Pressing the body closer, engaging in your tongue play and moaning are some.
- Do not overthink the situation. Do not try to anticipate your partner’s moves. Go with the flow and allow your body to speak for itself.
Hope this helps.
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